Since 2005, YSAFE (Youth Sexual Awareness for Europe) has become a visible youth network working in the field of SRHR in Europe and Central Asia. YSAFE members are active on national, regional and global levels.
I <3 being a girl was the first project of YSAFE, funded by the ‘Girls Decide’ initiative of IPPF 2010.
Now we would like to establish a Working Group to activate the blog a bit more.
If you are a YSAFE-member and interested to become a part of the Working Group, please contact our YSAFE coordinator Ivy Miltiadou (imiltiadou@ippfen.org)
We close the #GirlsDecide series with Odeta's* story.
She shares her journey that involves her partner and a decision to not to use a condom... several other decisions will have to be taken afterwards, with the information, support and advice available.
We continue our around the world journey to listen to girls from #GirlsDecide initiative from IPPF. Today it's Nomvelo* in Swaziland, telling us about her future dreams, love, doubts about sex and the worries that her HIV status could be a problem in relationship...
This time we travel to Bangladesh to meet Hosna* and hear about her decision making journey. She tells us about her fears regarding an early marriage and looks for a way to make an autonomous decision about her future, while involving her community and changing some of the customs.
Halimah's* journey takes us to Indonesia and through the difficulties of taking an informed decision about a pregnancy when your culture and your family might not be entirely with you.
And how comprehensive sexuality education could change the entire picture...
Here you have second of #GirlsDecide short films on the issues around their sexuality young women face and the work IPPF does day by day to reach the most vulnerable.
This one takes us to Syria and deals with gender based violence, human trafficking, forced sex work... a lot very not-Christmas-like-at-all crimes that keep affecting women around the world. Even one is too many, and unfortunately there are many more that have to survive through it.
Seems incredible but we still haven't shared here the official #GirlsDecide videos. This is one of six shot movies on girls, sexuality, bodily autonomy and youth friendly services across all IPPF regions.
It's a dramatization of a real story of Valeria* looking for support and a youth friendly specialist.
An another take on the issue of girls and development, mentioning I ♥ Being a Girl:
"There is consensus that girls are central to development. Yet, girls
continue to bear the brunt of poverty and ill-health, including maternal
mortality, unsafe abortion and HIV. Issues relating to girls’ sexuality
and their sexual and reproductive rights remain largely neglected.
According to the World Health Organization, some 16 million girls
between 15 and 19 and two million girls under the age of 15 give birth
each year. For them, complications of pregnancy and childbirth are a
leading cause of death. Approximately 82 million girls in developing
countries will be married before their 18th birthday. This will disrupt
their education, even though women with more years of schooling have
better maternal health, fewer and healthier children and greater
economic opportunities.
Biologically, girls’ health can be more vulnerable than men’s. Of
particular concern are the dramatic increases in HIV infection among
young women, who now make up 60% of the 15 to 24 year olds living with
HIV. Girls are also exposed to various forms of violence from harmful
traditional practices such as female genital mutilation and the growing
problem of sex trafficking to early and forced marriage.
Disparities in the way girls and boys are raised and treated are at the
root of poor sexual and reproductive health (SRH) and development
challenges. For boys, adolescence can mean new freedoms and greater
participation in community life. Girls, however, may face the opposite:
restrictions in their access to choices, education, services and
support.
Traditional gender roles give girls little say about their own hopes and
dreams. Yet we know it is possible to take effective practical action
that enables girls to tackle gender inequality and ill-health and to fulfill their potential.
The Girls Decide initiative and the project I ♥ Being a Girl are a step toward this.
Girls Decide aims to ensure that girls have access, as a human right
imperative, to life-saving SRH services and information. I ♥ Being a
Girl, recently winner of a World Summit Youth Award, promotes a positive
approach to the sexuality of young women through online tools.
IPPF/WHR
also invests in services and programs targeting girls. CIES, our local
partner in Bolivia, offers medical, psychological, and social care,
while ensuring confidential and quality SRH services to young people. In
2011, over 101,270 consultations were undertaken.
Sustained leadership is required to ensure that girls are recognised
rights-holders. Policymakers can help transform lives of girls by
supporting evidence-based research that reflect realities of girls’
sexual and reproductive lives; investing in youth-friendly services and
programs; guaranteeing access to comprehensive sexuality education; and
creating supportive legal and policy frameworks and social norms.
The benefits of investing in girls are transformational – for their own
lives and for their families, communities, and countries.
Empowering
girls so they can make healthy choices not only boosts economic growth,
but are also essential to achieve the Millennium Development Goals.
Let’s give them greater choice and control over decisions that affect
their sexual and reproductive lives and help break the cycle of poverty
and inequality for the next generation.
"
Investing in Girls is Essential to Ending Global Poverty
Fiona Salter & Elena D’Urzo*
* Fiona Salter is the press officer at IPPF Central Office. Elena D’Urzo is the Advocacy Officer at IPPF European Network.
Originally published by Girls' Rights Gazette. Article found in the blog of IPPF WHR.
We have spent all summer guarding this as our most precious (oh, the Precious!) secret. Below you can find a short video of what has become I ♥ Being a Girl perspective.
We have dedicated some time (more than 2 years) talking about what are the phenomena of the socialization of girls that we actually enjoy. Be it Spice Girls as role models, frilly dresses, shopping, silly movies... It's OK. We have been taught that these are some of the things girls enjoy, we have tried them and found them to be enjoyable. Our first short film was dedicated to this (and you can still watch it here).
This video is different. It is still based on testimonies and everyday experiences of how it is to be a girl. Just that this one goes one step further than the previous one as we speak about autonomy, authentic choices and that journey when you discover what are the things / activities / people that touch your most inner being. And makes you happy.
"Sperm kills.* For hundreds of millions of women over the course of
millenia, the riskiest action they ever took was having sex (consensual
or otherwise, married or not) with men. As medical historians will tell
you, until the 20th century, childbirth was the leading cause of death
for all women of childbearing years; in some societies that maternal
mortality rate may have reached 40%,
while other researchers prefer a lower figure of 1 in 5. Given that
many women in the developing world still have half a dozen children or
more, as they did in previous centuries, the overall risk is compounded
by the sheer number of pregnancies carried to term. (1 in 7 Afghan women
today die in childbirth.)
To put it even more bluntly, men have killed far more women by ejaculating inside of them than they have by any other method. Semen has killed more people than any other body fluid."
He concludes that, culturally, as a collective unconscious knowledge, it might be one of the reasons to fear the patriarchy-wise channeled male (hetero)sexuality even in places where the feminist fight is not anymore about the legal right to say "no".
Becoming Jane (2007) will entertain you and will give you the always needed push reminding how important independence and feminism is for well educated young ladies with ambitions. Also, it will remind you that a happy ending might not be what you imagined it to be.
And you may want to read a Jane Austen book after all.
This movie is about Juno who is a funny, confident girl that "beats to her own drummer" and isn't bothered by what others may think of her. She has sex with a boy, becomes pregnant and goes through the process of weighing her options as to whether she should keep or terminate the pregnancy.
I ♥ Being a Girl (together with our #GirlsDecide family, women's rights family and SRHR family) is proud to be part of the TrustLaw Women, Thomson Reuters and Reuters LIVE BLOG dedicated to the International Women's Day and the centenary since it was celebrated for the first time!
You can do your reading on the subject here, and...